# Stop Pitching, Beg Them!
Source: https://www.yegor256.com/2019/04/09/beg-them.html
You want your startup to be visible on TechCrunch, right? But you don't have
$15-20K per month to bribe a reputable PR firm to get you there? No worries.
This blog post will give you a set of simple instructions on how you can
get the attention of those tech journalists who are currently busy
writing about Musk's and Zuckerberg's innovative ideas. They will
definitely write about your baby, I promise you. Just do what I say.
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First of all, you have to remember that they are just writers. They are not programmers,
designers, or artificial intelligence experts. Even when they write about that stuff
they actually have no idea. The don't know what machine learning is,
can't really tell the difference between Blockchain and Bitcoin,
and barely remember what they were saying in their articles just a
few months ago. You have to understand and forgive them.
They are being paid for the word count, after all.
Second, you have to remember that they not only don't care about your startup,
they don't care about the entire industry. They just need money
to feed their families. And there are two places to find that money:
1) sound topics like Google, equality, or billion-dollar divorce (they all dream about
putting them together in one title), or 2) your bank account. Thus,
if you can't tell them a mind-blowing sexual harassment story and you are not ready
to pay, writing about your startup won't help them feed their families.
And you don't want their families to starve, do you?
Be merciful. They are only human.
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They are starving and you are coming with a press release pitching your startup
idea, which is going to save the world and make you a billionaire. Do you think
they will be glad to help you out? Never. They will only feel jealous and expect you to pay---double.
Instead, you need to present yourself as someone whose starvation is even worse. They have
to feel pity for you. That's how they won't have a chance to refuse. _They_ must
be merciful.
How do you do that?
You beg.
But not directly and explicitly, of course. You have to be pretty
subtle in your self-humiliation. Here is what you do:
* **Follow Them**.
Find them on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and anywhere else
you can find them. Become their follower. Or even better, follow
and unfollow them every week. They will see that you keep coming back
in a desperate attempt to catch their attention.
Their souls will melt.
* **Re-tweet Them**.
Not just that. You should _comment_ on every single tweet they write
(especially those about their vacations, parties, and the puppies they hug).
The best way, of course, is to ask questions. They publish an article
about Zuckerberg's new innovative idea of blocking another group
of white supremacists on Facebook, and you ask them: "How come the world
is so cruel??" You got the idea. Just keep pretending that you
are totally interested in all the garbage they publish. They realize perfectly
that the stuff they write is worth nothing. When they see you
so deeply interested in their prose, however, they will understand that your
life situation is even worse than theirs. Here comes the mercifulness!
* **Quote Them**.
Find an article they wrote previously and write your own piece somewhere
on your blog or just on Medium. Then, email them a link, saying that their quote
inspired you so much that you can't stop thinking about it.
(Well, be careful with too much flattery.)
* **Ask Them Questions**.
Demonstrate to them that you are interested in their opinions by asking
questions directly, from time to time, in Facebook Messenger, for example. Of course,
your questions must be about their articles. For example, "Do you still
believe that..." and then mention something they said a few months ago. It doesn't
matter what you ask and, of course, you don't care about their answers,
but keep asking, regularly. Your goal is to make them remember your
avatar and to ensure they connect it in their minds with someone desperately and
unconditionally in love with them.
* **(Don't) Buy Them Coffee**.
If they are in the same city with you, a personal meeting over a cup
of coffee will definitely help. I would not recommend you paying for their
coffee, though. Maybe I'm wrong, but I think that this gesture will
give them the wrong idea that you have money. Instead, be cheap. Pay only
for your own coffee. And, of course, don't tell them much about your
startup, better ask them about their families, ski weekends, and about
how much they hate Trump. Remember, they care about your startup, not at all.
* **Beg!**.
After about six months of preparation you are ready to shoot. They already remember
your avatar (or maybe even your face, if you are lucky),
they know that you have no self-respect and no money,
they feel guilty for not giving you anything back for everything you've
done for them so far, and they feel their absolute dominant
position above you. Voilá! You've done a great job. Now you say something like:
"I feel so bad about asking this, but maybe you can help me out
and say a few words about my startup in one of your articles, pretty please?!"
How can they refuse?
Got the strategy?
You can invent some other tricks, if you get the idea: you have to show them
that they are much more important that your startup. They are the experts,
they know what the future of machine learning is, they change the world
with their articles, they are kings, while you are yet another startup
founder, who is ready to do anything just to get a chance to
~~kiss their feet~~ be mentioned in one of their future articles.
Try it, and let me know how it works.
PS. I tried too, but I can't seem to get further than the first step. It seems
that there is something wrong with me.